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Hi everyone,
I am a new CC in a new pack. There is so much out there to help leaders but at the same time I feel over taken by it all. I have learned in my short time with the BSA that other leaders are the very BEST sources for information.
We as pack admin. have had a rough road, but we must be doing something right because we have doubled our numbers. The boys are having a good time and some of our biggest people against us has now said that he sees the difference in the boy that we serve. Wow now that is better than anything that the BSA could ever give me.
I guess the reason for my post is I was wondering what peace of advice would you give to a new pack just starting out?
Thanks for your time. 
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3:52 pm January 27, 2010
| MISS Liberty
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The boys are having fun? You're doubling your numbers?
Yer doin' it.
My advice is simply this: Follow the Guide to Safe Scouting, have fun, make sure it's about the boys.
Other than that? GO TO TRAINING. Then go to more training. Then get someone you know in your unit to go to training with you. Not because you have to, but because it's fun and reinvigorates your passion for Scouting and gives you great networking opportunities. Start with the basics online, then go to a district or council training. If you've got a good Round Table in your area – GO. If you have the time and money to go to Wood Badge – GO. Definitely hit Pow Wow, University of Scouting, etc.
Oh, and listen to the shows here at PTCMedia. ;)
You're doing fine, Nancy. Just take deep breaths and enjoy the ride. Being new is fun and exciting, and even though it can be stressful, it's well worth the journey.
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"[S]He attacked everything in life with a mix of extraordinary genius and naive incompetence, and it was often difficult to tell which was which." ~ Douglas Adams
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thank you guys.
My hubby (our Webelos leader) and I have taken all the training that we can. We had a good learning experience at POW WOW. We are now waiting on Council to organize BALOO and OWL. We have talked about going to Wood Bridge but can not afford it right now. I wish that some of the others would take it more seriously.
I am so glad that I found PTC because I have already learned a lot and love that I have a place where I can ask questions. Your all great to help newbies like me. Thanks again.  
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12:07 pm February 2, 2010
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FYI… OWL, "Outdoor Leader Skills for Webelos Leaders", or whatever it is called in your neck of the woods is being replaced with the Boys Scout Leader level "Introduction to Outdoor Skills." IOS is probablly the better course to take. Many councils have been in the habit of wrapping BALOO and OWL into one neat little wrong package.
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Thanks for the FYI Scouter Garry
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NEW QUESTION!!!!
How does the whittling chip work? Is it really as simple as the requirement in the Bear book? Does the leader need to be BSA trained like BB Guns and Archery? If so what is it? What more do I need to know? Please help.
Thanks so much for all your input and advice.
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First off I have to say thank you so much to all that have taken the time to post and give advice, it has really helped.
I have a new question??….
Ok so how do you all do the checking account for your pack? I know that this can be a rather sensitive subject but it needs to be in the light and some real answers given. What I am really wanting to know is did you get tax exempt status from the IRS? Is it through the charter org.? How and where do I start?
I didn't think that this would be such a hard question but have not gotten any real answers from district or local level. Why is this a taboo subject? Please help.
Maybe AHAW or LCF could have a show on this subject and ask the treasurer to come and talk. Just a thought. Thanks for all you guys do.
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Thanks BigMc for your post. I have looked into having a local man that has worked with other packs come in and show the boys a few things. The packs that I have talked to that have had him come in rave about him and the "class" that he teaches.
I don't know why I was trying to make it more difficult than it was. Thanks again
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Well here I am back writing another email to ask for advice on how to handle this situation that happened.
We have a 5th grade boy that started in December. He has a VERY bad reputation around our small town. I thought that if we could channel that energy then that would help him.
At our B&G this boys mother got in my face about her son not having a uniform like all of the other boys (have given her the information with no response) and that he was not getting any awards. (I tried to find something that I could give him something for). His den leader took her outside and explained to her that there is a weekly newsletter and that we had sent home lots of info on uniforms. She said that she didn't get any of it. He explained to her nicely that we are not a babysitting service and that if she didn't get the information that was her issue b/c if she picked up her son like we asked then she would. It is a good thing that he has taken this over b/c I don't know that I would have been so nice.
Today my hubby the Webelos den leader took the time to go to their house to talk to her and work things out. He talked with her step-father for an hour waiting for her to come out. She would not come out.
To be honest I am done with this hole thing. I don't know what we should to next. My commish is not wanting to give me advice or even talk to about it at all. My DE is on vacation.
So you and all at PTC have given me so much help that I thought that I would ask again.
Thanks
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10:33 am March 10, 2010
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IMHO, If the boy is not causing problems in the Den, participating and having fun, your pack has had an impact on his life. Some would say your job was completed successfully.
This year we had 2 boys sign up in the 5th grade. At least one was already 11 by mid September. I explained to the parents that part of the 5th grade Webelos program would be visiting and selecting a troop that was right for them. I stated that to achieve the Arrow of light would be a hard hard road to hoe, but to enjoy the program. Also by staying with the pack until crossover the boys would be with their friends. This is often a key factor to success in the Boy scout program.
What we did for the boys not receiving an Arrow of Light Award, was to present them with a Certificate of Graduation from the Pack. One of the boys had not bothered to earn his bobcat, so I put his rank as cubscout on the graduation certificate.
As to what to do with this family now is Look to when the scout turns 11 and cross him over. What I hear is that his mom wants him recognized. So make sure that you give him a crossover ceremony and a certificate for something appropriate.
Last year we had a mother withdraw her son when he did not receive his Webelos badge with the other boys. He took the first two months of school to participate in Pop Warner Football and so missed out on the activity badges given during that time. We just we explained to all the parents that the boys would determine their success and speed at achieving their badge in Webelos. We just let her and her son leave, knowing that he would either come back or move on to sports which appeared to be his focus.
On the paperwork getting home side of things, We make a rule of not sending paperwork home with the boys. We hand it directly to the parents or email it to them.
In the end it is the mother's issue and decision if she wants the boy to stay involved. I give the paperwork to the step father or the mother directly, even if it took driving to their house . Let the rest wash off like water on the back of a duck.
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1:08 pm March 10, 2010
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Post edited 6:09 pm – March 10, 2010 by SM Shawn
If you have rechartered them for the year, keep them on the mailing list and in the loop on everything that the pack and den are doing. If you have rechartered yet, then contact this mother, inform her that recharter is due, the fees are X amount, and you, as the CC, need to know if he is staying or going. Period. If she says that they are staying, then recharter them, but only after there a clear understanding between what is expected from the family, and what the unit will do for them.
Those understandings should fall somewhere along the lines of:
Uniforms – tell her to get to the scout shop, get a khaki shirt and put on the patches; you give her a uniform inspection sheet so she knows where they go
Awards – he earns them, not just gets a patch. If they choose not to participate, then so be it. It's the Den Leader's call to send out the materials, and as a 5th grader, it's OK to send that stuff home with the scout. A follow up email or phone call wouldn't hurt, in case you think that the boy is unreliable.
In a nutshell, keep the lines of communication open, and if needed, spell it out. Sometimes, people get mad as a defense to what they are really trying to say…"I don't understand, help me to understand."
If those lines can't be kept open, because of mom, well, then, there is nothing that you can do, except expect to hear about how bad the scouts are, from this mom.
And yea, I have been there, done that, and gotten the T-shirt…so I know what you are going through…
My CC is the same way, tries to save them all…you can't…it sucks, but you can't save them all…
Keep your chin up, you are doing the right thing, and hubby did, too…
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Updates from us……
1. Training ~ well that is a sore subject but we are going to get new leader specific, BALOO, and OWL training this month and in May. We are having to go to another district but at this point that maybe a good thing.
2. The family that we are having a problem with is still refusing to talk with us but, we keep informing them of things going on in the pack. So I guess that is the important part. I know in my head that we can not "save" every boy but my heart tells me that we should try.
3. I can never say enough how much your taking the time to read and answer a question has made a real difference. I know that I can come to you all will anything I have on my mind and someone will be able to give some incite on it. Thanks so much to all of you. You have made me feel welcome and given me LOTS of great information.
Thanks
Nancy
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2:15 pm March 10, 2010
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"2. The family that we are having a problem with is still refusing to talk with us but, we keep informing them of things going on in the pack. So I guess that is the important part. I know in my head that we can not "save" every boy but my heart tells me that we should try."
That is the best that you can do…we have a family that is doing the same thing to us right now…we just keep them "in the know" with everything. If you don't hear from them, oh well…you did your part.
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You're welcome…that is what we are here for
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9:08 am March 17, 2010
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Post edited 1:08 pm – March 17, 2010 by MISS Liberty
Dear Nancy,
It sounds like y'all are handling things VERY well.
I'm really proud of all you're doing, Nancy. For your unit and for the BSA in general.
 
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that is so cool THANKS! I needed that. So did my hubby Colby.
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